Saturday, January 14, 2006

The good things in life

The good things in life

LG-Life's Good. Starting off with a corny one liner made famous by a brand,let me list some of the things that make life worth living.
We all read those tacky slogans made up by Archies and Hallmark copywriters who have nothing better to do than to make conjure up the sappiest image of life,package it and sell it to teens thirsty for such products.
Though I have to admit, sometimes they prove quite handy
(example-When u have forgotten a special occasion and have to make up to a)Your Girlfriend b)your parents c)Your friends)
We all know how good these things are and their potency somehow multiplies exponentially when coupled with a box or two of heart shaped chocolates

But coming back to the topic. What are some of the things that are enjoyed by almost all the people in the world and can never be replaced by any amount of marketing or brainwashing?

This list follows in random order. These are just a few things on the top of my mind. More to come later maybe!

1. A super cool amount of sleep

Ahh..the bliss..the simple pleasures of life. I dont think i could have spent one half of my life more in a more satisfying way!
You come home dead tired after:
A) A hardass day with your boss/teacher/proj guide making you toil,toil and oh wait-toil some more to leave u drained and exhausted. Whats the solution?SLEEP
B) A crazyy rocking time at the club/party/hanging out with pals at the local katta. Whatcha gonna do when u are home? SLEEP
C) How about a a heavy dose of studying all night for during study leave-Nothing like a good satisfying amount of sleep..B-E-autiful
D) How about sleeping just for kicks! Nothing as good as that either..wonderful

2. A random memory recall of you chilling out with friends

You could be anywhere in the world,at any stage in your career but a memory from the past just gets you fired up for any amount of challenges u might face in the day.
A friend playing a prank, a common joke, a secret, a recollection of incidents occurring on those trips you used to make(almost always at the last moment and always haphazardly-hey whats the fun without the adventure element,right?), those times when u had fought with friends over something as pointless as who gets to bat first or maybe the first time u confessed something really important to your buddy..I wish we had some kinda technology to capture these moments forever in time..no PDA, handycam, digicam is ever gonna help me out on this one!

3. Your first love

Although this might be the only one amongst this list that is used by greeting card companies,somehow those big corporations.. they really dont strike the right chord now, do they?
What is it about the first time you fall in love that makes it so cool?
With a total disregard to feminists I take the liberty of writing this paragraph from the male point of view-females are requested to replace terms appropriately as and when required.
It could be anything from the first time you see the person to maybe the last time you see her(not necessarily though)
What could it be-that first glance,the first time you talk,the excitement you experience when you get the her number for the first time, your heart beating madly when u call up?
Or could be the stage after that- when you really start to know the person,and i dont mean likes-dislikes. I mean the point where you start CONNECTING.
A stage where you can read her mind, anticipate what she is gonna say and catch her words before she can say them-bringing that amazing smile on her face, both entwined in each others worlds..too caught up to notice the world around you.
Personally..sure the thrill is unbeatable, but give me that sense of closeness and bonding that follows any day, week or month of the year!
And the disagreements, the arguments..well?
I dont believe anyone ever remembers the fights that take place..they seem so important at that time but are reduced to indistinguishable remains in our memory.

4. The first appreciation of YOU

Self-respect and a healthy image of oneself is important, but a lil dose of encouragement or appreciation from a peers or elders never hurt anyone.
(Though some people feed and live on that...no harm in taking in some from time to time)
Look back, when was your moment in life. Absolutely no one but YOU held centerstage. All eyes on you. Or maybe the attention of someone you had really been trying to please.
Your first drawing, the first time you scored in something(maybe without expecting it!) or maybe you did something that made your folks feel really proud
I wish these moments repeat more often, but maybe they would lose their value then.

5.Unexpected Luck

A coin lying on the floor
A song you were thinking about..humming along..and bam..it starts playing on the radio
Finding out who the hell was that song by anyway when the RJ announces it
That moment when you find the cd u have been searching high n low for in the store
A friend comes n tells you heres your X amt of rs you lent him last week
Contests! You end up winning something as bad from a crap slogan t-shirt to a jackpot on a game show
Aapke foreign waale uncle brings home stuff that u had only just read about and were kicking yourself silly for not staying abroad
You come home to the wonderful aroma of your fav thing to eat(Maa ke haath ka gajar halwaa, anyone?)
After having given up all hope and switching off your TV, you grumble about and switch on the match after 1 hr to find Yuvi and Kaif leading India to a historic win!
Exams postponed!
Your friends calls u up and screams SCHOLARRR..and bugs you about how good an actor you are to pretend you are gonna flunk when you have got a first class in the results that have just been put up
That book you thought u lost somewhere turns up under your bed
A long lost buddy calls you up
Your girl surprises you by landing up in the most unexpected way somewhere u least expected!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!- ALLLLL THE people u know land up at your place to give u the best bday party in your life


Random good things

Smell of freshly baked bread
Doing a "rockbottom" on a pile of freshly laundered clothes
A friends pet actually liking you from the first instant he sees you
Lotsa mails in your inbox-none of them forwards!
Holding a baby for the first time in your arms
Sorting through childhood photos, smiling at how hard you were trying to look cool and how goofy you actually turned out looking
Screaming with thousands of supporters at the stadium-knowing that they too are connected to the same adrenaline rush
Finally killing the bad guy in that darned video game
Trekking in the hills,birds chirping in the forest all around you,realising that the uncomfortable train journey with was really worth all the trouble
Coming to know someone(worthwhile) secretly admires you!
Silence
Enjoying a re-reun of an old movie. Saying the funny lines along with the actors on screen.
Dreaming about more good things in life with a stupid grin on your face

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Reading your blog did remind me about the good things in life
Happiness does lie in simple things too, doesnt it?

Anonymous said...

nicely written man.